People who act unfairly, inconsiderately, or unkindly may deserve to be penalized, but never to be totally condemned as rotten no-goodniks who deserve to be eternally damned.
Anger does not help in the long run; it is only temporarily effective at best.
Anger toward others frequently prevents me from getting what I want.
While it is undesirable to fail to get what I want, it is seldom awful or intolerable.
I can cope successfully with unfair people even though I strongly wish they would act better.
I wish others would treat me fairly but they never have to.
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